Anyway, so I am looking through the personal ads today and I am just amazed at the number of labels one must keep track of today to date? I kinda get the butch or femme thing but all the different deviations of things now are crazy lol.

Butch, queer, gender queer, soft-butch, dyke, femmy-dyke, lipstick, femme, femmy-femme, hard-butch, femmy-butch, hot-butch, bi-femme, bi, lez, etc.....

I swear before I can even look at the ads I need to find the lowest common denominator and its coefficient just to figure out what the hell I am supposed to be looking for!